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Date Submitted: August 19, 2010
Site Name: Ashley Madison
Quality of Singles: 5 out of 10
Accuracy of Profiles: 5 out of 10
Features, Service, Ease-of-Use: 5 out of 10
Overall Experience: 9 out of 10
Recommend: Yes
Review: If You're Looking For a Lover This Is a Great Site
I disagree with the people who rated this site poorly.

As a married woman who went to this site, looking for, quite frankly, a secret lover, I did not have a bad experience. I am attractive, look younger than my age and sure there are lots of guys who contacted me and honestly most of them were not my type.

I had a nice email relationship with one of them for a couple of months that went no where, and I met one men that I thought was interesting, after lots of emails and a few phone calls, and unfortunately, he had "man boobs" which I'm not into (I think his might have been bigger than mine) and I couldn't get past. I guess the third one was the charm. I found an attractive, sexy man, and we started something and fell in love with each other and are still in each other's lives. He was all that he said he was,and still is, on his profile, and more, and although his photos were maybe a few years old, he looks close enough to say the photos didn't lie. I think there's a little more grey in his hair than in his photos.

Falling in love with him, and getting caught kissing him, destroyed my marriage (which had issues anyway or I wouldn't have gone to Ashley Madison), when my husband found out, so I am now separated. And unfortunately "the other man" remains with his wife, but I sense someday he too will make the break, when the time is right for him. He has to decide what's right for him and just because I got caught doesn't mean he has to change his life to accommodate my situation. I'd love it if someday he decides I'm the one he would prefer to spend the rest of his life with, but I don't know where this relationship is going to go or if he and I have a long term future together, for sure. I hope we do.

I don't know if he's still courting women on the site. I doubt it since he doesn't seem to have enough energy for me most of the time, and it would take a patient woman to put up with him some of the time, and only someone who loves him as much as I do, could or would overlook some of his faults...but who knows. I hope he's not still cruising for women, and doubt that he is, but then, he has made me no promises or guarantees. And there's no ring on my finger with his name on it, so I guess I just have to trust that he really loves me and wouldn't cheat on me. (I know what you're all thinking).

When he finally leaves his wife and quietly cancels his profile on Ashley Madison, which means he'd have to give up all the points he claims he has and can't get a refund for, and says he is saving "just in case I dump him", then I'll know he's mine for good.

Till then, all is well.

I got what I went there looking for, and then some. And more important, it didn't cost me anything but time. The men generally paid for the points or whatever it is they use.
Submitted by: BlondeHoney
56 year-old   ::   Female Reviewer   ::   Cape Coral

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